Tayyibah Taylor
Age: 51
Home: Atlanta
When I was in high school, we went to a mosque for a field trip. We were taking world religion. Afterward, I sat and talked to people there. I asked questions. It was the '60s and I had been pretty wild and crazy. In Islam, I was drawn to the unity of God and the discipline.
One of the big differences between Canada and America is that America is a melting pot. When you come here, you assimilate. If you have a name that's hard to pronounce,, you're encouraged to change your name to something a little more American. That's how a Mohammed can become a Matt. It's part of the assimilation.
The Canadian model of multiculturalism is different. It's a mosaic. You've got all these separate tiles. You've got Sikhs, Indians, Canadian natives, Poles, Italians -- and each get put together to make up the whole. Everybody maintains their identity, but it's not at the expense of being Canadian. Whereas here, it's almost as if you maintain your identity, then you're somehow not loyal to America.
When we talk about patriotism, is it something that narrows your scope or is it something that expands your vision? I think that, as citizens of the world, we have to cultivate the ability to be able to look at this from different frames of reference.
For example, when we talk about patriotism in America, we have slogans like "Give me liberty or give me death" or "Live free or die." That's a frame of reference we feel very comfortable with here. However, if someone else in another country -- say, a Palestinian -- says "Live free or die" or "Give me liberty or give me death," all of the sudden it's something else. It's not patriotism.
It's very interesting. If someone invaded America, of course we would all stand up and fight. Now that Iraq has been invaded, the people who are standing up and saying, "We don't want you here" are not called patriots; they're called insurgents. It's your frame of reference. This whole discussion of patriotism is a privilege of a superpower.
When I was growing up in Canada, there were no images of people of color in the media or in textbooks. Even though my father was a chemist and my mother was a teacher and nurse, I internalized this sense of inferiority. This is the same thing that happens to Muslim women. The only images they see of themselves are of being oppressed and repressed. They are these faceless nonentities.
I founded Azizah in 2000. The magazine highlights the accomplishments of Muslim women. We profiled a Muslim woman who presides over an American court -- things people would never know.
I picked Azizah for its meaning. In Arabic, "azza" means "strength" and it also means "dear." So there's this combination of dearness and strength, which to me is the epitome of a perfect woman.



COMMENTS
RE: Tayyibah Taylor
Posted by Nurulhidayah on 05.01.09 @ 01:04 PM
Assalamualaikum Tayyibah,
Last spring holiday,we had been in Atlanta for one week...masya Allah...we just love Atlanta to compare to Athens,Ohio...we managed to find halal restaurants easily...
What I found here in America,people will entertain my husband better than me...may be I look like a terrorist because of my hijab...I definately disappoint for this...I believe in Allah...Allah will protect me, that makes me strong n assimilate well.
I am a Malaysian...I used to be very busy and active in my homecountry...so I just get into the community even they dont like me...n my hijab...
Nice meeting all muslims in America...
Nurulhidayah binti Mat Khairi
RE: Tayyibah Taylor
Posted by Rafidah Mahayuddin on 02.10.09 @ 01:49 AM
Assalamulaikum Tayyibah,
I am Rafidah from Malaysia. I would be attending your video conference entitled "Women in Entrepreneurship - Secrets to Success' with the Malaysians on 11 Feb 2009.
Looking forward to meeting you
Salam
Rafidah